Doing Nothing Is Doing Something Too

During the recent holiday season, I made a unique choice - to do nothing. That's right, absolutely nothing. No elaborate plans, no over-the-top activities, just me and the simplicity of each day unfolding naturally.

This is how the conversation typically played out when people asked about my holiday plans.

Them: "What are your plans for the holidays?"
Me: "I'm taking some time off."
Them: "Nice! You going to spend time with family or going anywhere fun?"
Me: "Neither. I am doing nothing. I want to wake up every day with no plans and no agenda. I just want each day to bring me what I need and see where that takes me."
Them (cue a confused yet intrigued look): "Oh wow, that's different! Lucky you! I wish I could spend my holidays like that."

It was interesting to observe how the concept of doing nothing can be overlooked in a world where holiday traditions often takes precedence. It did feel odd at first not to participate in the expected holiday routines. However, I discovered a profound sense of fulfillment in allowing each day to guide me. It was like the days just knew the experiences that I needed.

One day, it was an impromptu meetup with friends for a night of heartwarming conversations before they headed off for the holidays. Another day, it was the spur of the moment zeal to paint my walls that I had been thinking about for months. And yet another day, it was a random stroll through the city that eventually brought me to my favorite restaurant where I got a cozy corner booth with a view. I enjoyed an engaging conversation with my waitress, read a book, and had a mouthwatering meal.

Throughout it all, every moment held its own charm and significance.

These seemingly ordinary days turned into little adventures because I consciously chose to redefine the holiday season according to my needs.

Choosing to simply do nothing unexpectedly gifted me with everything I needed.